Thursday, December 3, 2009

Introducing Zoe Mei Liette


At one glance I love you with a thousand hearts




~Mihri Hatun
  Finally!!!! We have our referral for our little Zoe!!! 
 It has been such a long 16 months of waiting and always expecting each month to receive "the phone call" with the big news that our agency has a baby for us.   It is always amazing to watch how God works in our life as we pray and wait and listen to where He is directing our paths and along the way, trusting that He knows the perfect timing and has the perfect plan.  I once again stand in amazement at our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.   

Our agency had been given the opportunity to find homes for some special needs children that another agency did not have enough parents for and our coordinator had told me that she thought there was a little girl on the list for us.  Dave and I happened to be in San Antonio for a few days and I decided to call to check (this was on November 16) and was told that the little girl they thought would be ours was placed with a family whose adoption fell though.   Our coordinator then told me about a little girl 22 months old with a repaired cleft palate who needed a home.   We had not selected this need on our special needs checklist, but as she told me about her I felt we needed to consider this little girl, so when she asked if we wanted to see her picture and file I said yes.  Well of course, when we saw the picture of this precious little girl we ALL fell in love with her.  

We decided to spend some time praying and seeking God and so even though we were so excited we told noone.    As I was praying the next day God gave me the verse in Matthew "Whatever you did to the least of these, that you did unto me." and I just knew this was our daughter.   I don't think I will ever forget the emotion of having this particular scripture given to me at this time.

Here are a few details about our daughter: 
Her Chinese name is Wang Guiying.
Her birth date is January 8, 2008.
Her weight is 26.4 pounds and she is 33.5" tall.
She is in foster care in Inner Mongolia and we are told she could be strongwilled, she is a bit introverted and she has a good sense of humor!!!

Love is not love if it neatly calculates the cost.  It gives all and its only regret is that it has not still more to give.

We are so excited to once again be waiting, impatiently though I must admit, to travel again to China and have our little girl placed in our arms. In Fields of the Fatherless, author Tom Davis reveals why this is so. "Real joy is not always found in obvious places," writes Davis. "Instead, it hides in corners, waiting to be discovered when we sacrifice our desires for God's desires."


“When you reap your harvest in your field, and forget a sheaf in the field, you shall not go back to get it; it shall be for the stranger, the fatherless, and the widow, that the LORD your God may bless you in all the work of your hands,  When you beat your olive trees, you shall not go over the boughs again; it shall be for the stranger, the fatherless, and the widow.  When you gather the grapes of your vineyard, you shall not glean it afterward; it shall be for the stranger, the fatherless, and the widow.
Deuteronomy 24:19-21








We were able to request an update on little Zoe and received these pictures:


Once again we had to then wait to share our big news, since much of the information on her paperwork was not accurate and apparently the orphanage had switched some documents with another child and we were told they "must not know how to measure!" since some of that info could not have possibly been accurate!  Our doctor here caught the errors and could not review the paperwork, as required in order to send our Letter of Intent to China.  And now finally with more than two weeks having passed we can say this is our little girl!!!

As I look at these new pictures I think she looks so sad with the little tear running down her face and so grown up and it makes me think about all the baby months we have not been able to take care of her.  She looks like she has bites on her face like Sasha did when we first met her and that makes me even more anxious to get over there and hold her and bring her home.

Below is a map to show where she is waiting. The small picture on the left is China with the lighter area showing Inner Mongolia and the large picture shows where Bautou City is in Inner Mongolia.

Here is what happens now.  We just completed the Letter of Intent to adopt Wang Gui Ying.  We will wait then for "Preapproval", then the "Letter of Acceptance" and finally a Travel Approval all coming from China and in the meantime we will continue to update our documents here which are expiring.  Apparently at this time all of these steps take anywhere from 3 to 9 month so we could travel by February or it could be summer or fall until we go. Hopefully, it will be soon!

As Christmas comes this song captures our feelings as we hold our precious little Zoe in our hearts here and pray that there are Christians in China that are the hands and feet of Jesus until we can travel to Inner Mongolia.

“Merry Christmas”
There’s a little girl trembling on a cold December morn
Crying for mama’s arms 
At an orphanage just outside a little China town

Where the forgotten are

But half a world away I hang the stockings by the fire
And dream about the day when I can finally make you mine

It’s Christmas time again but you’re not home
Your family is here and yet you’re somewhere else alone
So tonight I pray that God will come and hold you in His arms
And tell you from my heart
I wish you Merry Christmas

As I hang the tinsel and watch the twinkling lights
I’m warmed by the fire’s glow
Outside the children tumble in a wonderland of white
And make angels in the snow

But half a world away you try your best to fight the tears
And hope that Heaven’s Angels come to carry you here

Christmas is the time we celebrate the Holy Child
And we celebrate His perfect gift of love
He came to Earth to give His life and prepare a place for us
So we could have a home with Him above

It’s Christmas time again and now you’re home
Your family is here so you will never be alone
So tonight before you go to sleep, I’ll hold you in my arms
And I’ll tell you from my heart
I wish you Merry Christmas

Brad Avery  “Third Day-Christmas Offerings”

A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, 
is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families . . .
        Psalm 68:5-6a



2 comments:

Unknown said...

I am so happy for you guys!! I have been so blessed to see all that your family has gone through these past few years with the struggles of the adoption and now it will all be worth it! I have been praying for this day and I know God had this little girl in mind especially for your family. I am so excited for all of you :)

Karen said...

Congrats ! We are so excited for you. What a blessing that you now have your referral for Zoe. It is awesome how God works to bring our children into our families.